Who has married Kappa or Gourmet? Please help !!!!!!

[Susa-Ann]

I want to marry Kappa and Gourmet before I'll finally marry Kai.

For marrying Kappa Cher has written on her site:
- Collect all 9 of the Kappa Jewels (I own the Kappa Gem)
- Catch every type of fish available in the game. (I did, I have a letter "Caught ALL fish!")
- Ship at least 1 of every item that can be sold through Zack. (I did, I have a letter "Shipped ALL crops!")
- Expand your house to the largest size and own the Big Bed. (I own the Big Bed)
- Discover every type of item hidden in the ground of the Spring Mine and the Lake Mine. (I did, I have a letter "Found ALL mine items!")
- Ask Carter for permission to marry Kappa during Carter's confessional times. (I did, he said: "I want to marry the Kappa. You must love him dearly to feel that way. I'm sure the Kappa knows you feel about him. The Harvest Goddess says "follow your heart.")
- Live on your farm for at least 5 years. (I'm in year 11)

And I've given a cucumber to him every day (except winter) for exactly 6 years now.

But he doesn't want to marry. Has anybody already married him and can tell me what's the problem? Please !!!!! I'm really frustrated.

For marring Gourmet Cher has written:
- you'll need to win the Cooking Festival in each one of it's 5 categories. (I did. Each category with Gourmet in space)
- You will also need to complete all 108 cooking recipes in the game. (I did)
- You'll also need to give gifts to Gourmet. In year 2, 3, 4, 5 I've given a wrapped Elli leaves (one in every year) to him. In year 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11 I've given a wrapped Elli leaves and about 5 rucksacks full with moon dumplings, chocolate cookies and cookies (from the boys) to him.
Who has already married Gourmet and can tell me how many years it will still last?

[harvest momiji]

1. none of the three specail bachlors can get married

[hanhton]

Well, um...............my idea is give them more gifts.

[harvest momiji]

oh, she wants ideas, ok than...
threaten them with varities of sharp objects and tofu...XD no jk
make sure you have of the requirements completed and give them more gifts (hm seems like the people are a lillte greedy o.o )

[hanhton]

A little? They've never give the character anything, except on thnxgiving and stocking day (don't remember the holiday's name.)

[harvest momiji]

yea, just to get the boys to like you, you have to give them gifts

[hanhton]

Don't you means you have to give everyone more gifts to raise their friendship with you?

[harvest momiji]

yep... XD

[sunshine1]

check the HM5 site, Cher has listed what all the guys like and dont like

I am starting to think ou cant marry the gourmet and it is just a myth

[harvest momiji]

no, ppl have married gourment before

[Christopher]

just keep giving the gourmet gifts i completed everything in year 7 but he woudn't marry me till year 10

[crazyhatforever]

well i can marry won and hes a special bachlor

[Susa-Ann]

just keep giving the gourmet gifts i completed everything in year 7 but he woudn't marry me till year 10

I'm now in year 11 and he doesn't want to marry.

What kind of presents did you give him? Elli leaves or other food?
How many presents did you give him every year?
Did you give wrapped or unwrapped presents?

[harvest momiji]

food
....o.o
dun matter

[SuKoNdEeZ]

just keep giving the gourmet gifts i completed everything in year 7 but he woudn't marry me till year 10

I'm now in year 11 and he doesn't want to marry.

What kind of presents did you give him? Elli leaves or other food?
How many presents did you give him every year?
Did you give wrapped or unwrapped presents?

i gave him elli leaves and another recipe both wrapped then i gave both to him.