Why can't I marry

[Jack is single]

I have my house at large size,I have rose mystic islands and have the church, I have seen the red heart event, I have her sunstone, and I gave Julia a blue feather but she said no. There is one thing I think I didn't do though. I haven't added the restroom yet! But how do I make easy money to buy that though! Spring time by the way

[Little Sprite]

You don't need the restroom to get married. Just upgrade the house twice.

Have you done all of this? I noticed you didn't say you've made an offering to the Goddess.

-Have a red heart color with the person you want to marry
-View the black, purple, green, and yellow heart events
-Own the Wife or Husband Bed, which appears at Chen's shop for 10,000 G after you upgrade your house twice.
-Raise the Mystic Islands so that Nathan and the church can move in
-Make an offering to the Goddess by tossing a gift into her pond at least once
-You've received the Sun Stone the boy or girl had found

[BlueTrillium]

Or possibly you're missing the wife/husband bed, the third item on Little Sprite's list above.

[Guest]

I have done all of that even given an offering to the harvest godess I will try again and see what happens but please help me...

[Guest]

She says " I'm flattered... But right now, I couldn't possibly... I'm sorry.

[zaria]

-Own the Wife or Husband Bed, which appears at Chen's shop for 10,000 G after you upgrade your house twice.

It is the only thing that you miss, maybe. And a question: do you upgraded your house twice? Because the Big Bed won't appear in Chen's catalogue untill you have it.

[Guest]

Um my house size says large but what does the big bed llook like is it
bigger than the wife's bed? I think I have it...

[BlueTrillium]

It's an actual, separate bed in your house. So if there aren't two beds in your house, you don't have it yet.

[Guest]

I have two beds in my house. One red-orange the other green

[PeachyKeen]

Just keep trying. If you have all that, it's bound to work

[Guest]

Hmm....Have you been nice to her mom Mirabelle? If I'm not mistaken, you also need to befriend your favorite sweetie's family and get the household sunstone in order to marry them. Try working on your friendship with Mirabelle.