Anonymous Fish wrote:
It really seems like you are trying to exclude people as much as possible here, first you insult females for liking yaoi couples and now you're insulting people who like Allen. I think you should really pull back the reigns on how freely you speak about everything. Also, you go on and on about things *you* want... (This game isn't just for you, you know that right?) It's repeated information and to be honest, I'd rather see more posts from other people. It's one thing to say that you dislike a character, but it's an entirely other thing to sit there insulting the character and stating how you feel it doesn't belong because of your personal experiences. If that's the case, then all the characters would end up being kicked to the curb at some point because someone, somewhere, has had a bad personal experience with someone like each of those characters. (For me, I don't approve of Soseki. But I don't want to upset other people by going into great details about that. This isn't the time or the place.) I just really hope you understand how insulting you have been and improve upon that in future posts.
someone's not been paying attention.
I did not attack women for liking yaoi. I mentioned how many women turn gay men into a fetish *once* to someone who's post came off as homophobic. men and women are capable of liking LGBT couples without turning us into a fetish, but it is actually rather rare.
as for allen, he meets almost all the criteria of domestic violence (the only ones he doesn't are the more violent ones that wouldn't be in a kid's game) which is
vastly different than simply disliking a character or having a bad experience with someone that's kinda like a certain character. so I mean, unless you've dealt with the same things the survivors who came forward after ANB's release in English to tell their stories, I suggest you not compare the two.
and if you have such issue with the things I say, you could always simply stop reading them, or make an actual account, and ether message me there so I don't have to derail the topic just to defend myself from a cowardly anon or block me.
I will speak as freely as I like.
Anonymous Fish wrote:
I don't see where she insulted anyone for liking Allen. In any case, Allen's behavior is really unacceptable. He's abusive as hell and the fact that he's a bachelor in a kids' game is kind of disturbing. There is nothing wrong with people criticizing that. Also, I'm not sure what was said about the yaoi thing, but the fetishiziation of homosexuality is pretty wrong. Liking a gay couple isn't wrong, but liking them just because they are gay and you think it's hot is pretty bad.
thank you! finally, someone who gets it.
Anonymous Fish wrote:
There is nothing wrong with a woman who likes to see two guys kissing. It's logical: if i like hot guys, then i'll love two hot guys. But if she doesn't respect gay people, then she's something beyond stupid.
the ignorance is strong with this one.
mong mong wrote:
Totally agree with fishy here. I mean I like wooing Allen cause i don't always like going for goody-two-shoes and adorable sweet characters all the time when I'm playing a game. I have a fair share of time doing that in real life. So Allen is something different to me and yes, different people have different taste preferences and quirks.
And I do think her phrase saying "I don't feel like putting up with his psycho fangirls (if they're as bad here as they were on tumblr at least..)" is quite harsh to be honest. It's one thing to have an opinion, and it's another to present it in a rude manner.Ironically, she is being somewhat like Allen, despite disliking him for being abusive and awful. And before I was accused as one of those psycho fangirls, i'll just say this here that this is the first time that I actually disagree with people saying Allen is horrible, just because the poor way the opinion is voiced.
well, thing is, if you're not actually one of the psycho fangirls, then I'm not talking about you. when I first came out about my story on tumblr and how offended and hurt I was that allen had been added to the game, I was bombarded with hateful messages, death threats, rape threats, 'you deserved it you [slur slur slur]', ext. there are psycho fangirls who pop up any time he's mentioned and attack. if that's not you, good for you. I'm not talking about you, and if
I'm being "harsh" by calling them what they are, then what are they?
also, do not
ever compare the anger of the oppressed and victimized to the actions of the oppressors and abusers.
ever.
Tantalize wrote:
I've been reading through this thread, I agree. Yes, okay, we know that you want same-« Chicken Hugging » marriage in the games. We know you want gender-neutral pronouns. Those are your opinions, and I respect that. But can you please stop mentioning it in every other post? We get the point already. I feel that a lot of the things posted have been repetitive, and I agree that more variety in content would be nice.
& Ditto with the poster above me. This forum should be kept respectful, and while I don't particularly care for Allen myself, I don't that some opinions about him have been expressed very nicely.
On a separate note, I am so happy that XSEED is localizing SoS! RF4 is one of my favorite games ever, and I loved their work with it, so I am very excited for SoS.
well, seeing as I only brought it up because it was part of the conversation, should the conversation had moved to a different subject, I too would have followed. if you want a new subject so badly, introduce one.
I tried to be respectful before. that did not work. no one treated me with the same respect I showed them. I am tired of being the one who is shooshed and shoved aside and I no longer put up with it. if you have a problem with that, that is your problem.