When breaking up feels so right

Post Posted: May 09, 2017 1:35 am

...Hinata forbids you to smile your smile of joy in front of everyone else but him and he doesn't even apologize after saying that, yet you don't find anything possesive/controlling about that? You both are not even married during that time. I'm concerned.

He also forbids you to join whatever Festival you want to join, 'complimenting' you because you invited him for a dance because you did what you are SUPPOSED to do (and Festival of Plenty is not even a romantic one) and constantly reminds you that you are belong to him and him only/he always watches for you forever/questioning your faithfulness...And honestly despite some says how he apologizes afterwards, I can only find proof of him regretting what he has said in one shot where he says that he's a fool for thinking about wanting to keep you all for himself.

Hinata has some very questionable attitude and almost unhealthy attachment to you. Maybe not stalkerish, but he sure wants to have himself only involved in WHATEVER you do.

I can see the insecurity part his fans may use to defend him, as it's actually very standard reason for such possesive and controlling behaviour in relationship. However, having his lack of experience with girls before you is not an excuse because as revealed in some of his daily and event conversations he also have interacted with Komari, Lisette, Kasumi, Siluka and Iluka in a way. Also he is an actor so he must have another girls as costar to interact with. Ford too has no experience in love and romance before and he has his own share of insecurity, but he tries to improve himself instead (e.g. practicing dancing, practicing cooking, spying on Wayne's techniques) rather than questioning/controlling your action, showing off to the other that you are his only against your own will or constantly reminding that you belong to him. I guess that's partly also because of the difference in their personality and maturity level, but there comes the 'personality' part and that is possible it's just how Hinata's personality actually is when he has a lover.

Anyway, about other boys' jealous moments...

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Terra575 · Post Posted: May 09, 2017 1:48 am

To people saying they like the possessive lines or are making excuses for them, I hope you guys realise that there's a difference between being protective and possessive. It's a fine line, but one is a lot healthier than the other. I don't think it's wrong to include characters who are protective or insecure, but telling a partner how to behave is a different story, which is what several of these lines are doing.

Lenna36 · Post Posted: May 09, 2017 5:33 am

Terra575 wrote:To people saying they like the possessive lines or are making excuses for them, I hope you guys realise that there's a difference between being protective and possessive. It's a fine line, but one is a lot healthier than the other. I don't think it's wrong to include characters who are protective or insecure, but telling a partner how to behave is a different story, which is what several of these lines are doing.

Agreed. My views aren't objective on the topic of possessiveness so I'll end it here.

Thanks for answering my question everyone. Though I think it's time to get out of this rabbit hole.

Shan O 123 · Post Posted: May 09, 2017 7:34 am

Anonymous Fish wrote:Wayne can be possessive too I guess, like that event where he gets jealous of your uncle and Brad for talking with you(?) lol.

That's not being possessive, that's just plain jealousy over nothingness. He even admits it to you apologizes for it. He never forbid you from anything. As mentioned, there's a difference between being possessive and other means, and like I said I haven't seen Wayne do this.

Post Posted: May 09, 2017 8:11 am

Ludus is kinda of right, his town doesn't have the most thrilling men.
I can see why Tigre can be a threat.(he going be hot when he gets older)
but the others nah.
his pink flower event I can understand, the whole town always demand so much from him. He does everything for everyone. He is very selfless and when Mc makes him something he doesn't want to share it for once. He even feels guilty that he didn't share. Ludus deserve a day to be selfish on things.

yenquest · Post Posted: May 09, 2017 8:19 am

Hinata seems more and more like a yandere as I read these lines (complete infatuation), but I still don't see him in a very negative tone (at least the extreme yandere kind). Half of the dialogue have him asking MC if it's okay to do whatever, will MC make a promise with him, and warning her that he will be hugging her all night, etc. It's not "forcing" MC to do things like some people are implying. And if there is a line that tells MC what to do and such, there's only a couple of it that I've seen so far (at least, what's been posted here).

And mind you guys, I have little to no interest in pursuing Hinata in my file. He's practically on the last spot for my farmer's potential spouse list since he's too childish (both in behavior and appearance).

Anna_Lynn · Post Posted: May 09, 2017 9:11 am

yenquest wrote:Hinata seems more and more like a yandere as I read these lines (complete infatuation), but I still don't see him in a very negative tone (at least the extreme yandere kind). Half of the dialogue have him asking MC if it's okay to do whatever, will MC make a promise with him, and warning her that he will be hugging her all night, etc. It's not "forcing" MC to do things like some people are implying. And if there is a line that tells MC what to do and such, there's only a couple of it that I've seen so far (at least, what's been posted here).

^ This

ChaosAzerothCat · Post Posted: May 09, 2017 12:01 pm

Holy « Puppy Doodoo » guys Hinata is Mistel 2.0 conversation/drama wise.

Terra575 · Post Posted: May 09, 2017 1:25 pm

yenquest wrote:And if there is a line that tells MC what to do and such, there's only a couple of it that I've seen so far (at least, what's been posted here).

Even a couple lines like that are far too many in my opinion, but to each their own.

yenquest · Post Posted: May 10, 2017 11:27 am

Terra575 wrote:Even a couple lines like that are far too many in my opinion, but to each their own.

Yeah, to each their own. I am pretty lenient when it comes to one thing or a two, but when it's something coming up pretty frequently, that's when I would put my foot down and say no. I find Hinata's hugging/touchy actions too much because I prefer personal space. Then again, I am usually no-bueno with yandere characters anyway, haha.

Liliana93 · Post Posted: Jun 19, 2017 2:06 pm

Yuzuki's line feels a little manipulative but he's more implying that because the MC didn't take the time at all to talk to him in the morning (since bed-time in the HM universe is 6-8pm for some reason), that he felt insignificant, I can understand that, if I had someone I cared about that didn't even stop for 10 minutes at some point during the day to say hi and only waited until like late at night, unless it was unusual circumstances (such as a suuuper busy day where they didn't have time to breathe), I'd feel that way too. It feels more like he's communicating his insecurities about being ignored than actually trying to be possessive or manipulative (granted there's a mild manipulative undertone but it doesn't strike me as posssessive at all), as long as this is the actual dialogue that people are talking about:

"No, I'm not angry. Just sad. Sad to learn that
I'm so insignificant a person to you."

Hinata on the other hand always creeped me out a little, but truthfully the only two bachelors I've pursued are Ludus and Inari mostly cause I like their personalities the most (despite Inari's young appearance)