Ushi No Tane Forum

I heard that spoiling your child will affect how he grows up. If you spoil him what will happen when he grows up? what will happen if you don't?

Um... I don't think so, but if you expose him to different things, ie, carry him around town and show him different occupations, he's decide to do something different when he gets older. Spoiling? Not sure...

Yes, you spoil him by whenever he askes to be picked up you do and always cuddle him and give him alot of stuff.

and if you spoil him he will rebel against his mom.

...but my son is too cuddly to ignore! How do you know when he is going to grow up "evil" and "rebellious", I think my son has crossed to the dark side already, because all I do is carry him around and snuggle with the darn thing! I'ma bad parent...waaaa

nearly everyday I carry my son (though not to places, just in my arms) and cuddle and bounce him. I don't do it everytime he says, and I don't always do it as long as he wants. I've also carried him around town and shown him off a few times. I bought his toys once every month or so. Am I spoiling him? How much is spoiling, and how little is neglect?

with a mom like Nami, I'd rebel. She stays up late, leaves him home alone, and ceciela talks more about the kid then Nami does! All she does is tell him to go to bed. lol

yea it was hard to ignore my son but i did and now he is a good happy boy and not a very depressed lonely rebel

I gave my self a limit.My child will only be snuggled two tiomes a day, and possibly once before bed.When the date is an odd number I carry him to Romana's villa to give him musical influence.

when he protests goin ta bed, then hes spoiled...

Man Ebil, I would hate to have to be your child, lol. A chart on the wall "you've saved up 6 snuggles son, I'm proud of you". I like the idea of taking him to Romana's for musical influence. To bad it doesn't actually work, lol. I'd do it if I could fit my kid in my knapsack. It's big enough to carry a few hundred things, why can't it carry my son?